Happy Valentines Day

I am in the office today and Jen is working from home. I was able to wish her a Happy Valentines Day before I left the house though, so that makes me happy.

Yes I know that Valentines Day is a hallmark holiday and not a real thing, but I was alone for so very long before I met Jen that I never got to celebrate and I just want to make up for lost time.

We used to do anti-valentines celebrations. A bunch of friends would get together and go bowling and eat pizza and make fun of the happy couples. Now I am in one of those couples and I do so love every second of it. Make fun of me all you want, being with Jen is totally worth it.

Happy Valentines Day, Jen. I love you with all my heart. Smooch.

Preemptive Valentine

Last night as we were getting ready for bed I jumped the gun. I asked Jen if she would be my valentine. I know it was still a couple of hours away from actual Valentine’s Day but I just couldn’t wait to ask her. I was so excited about the idea of her being my valentine that I just had to know right then.

She said yes. She’s my valentine.

And all was right with the world.

Happy Valentine’s Day

Allow me to take a minute here to internet-ily wish a Happy Valentine’s Day to the love of my life, Jen.  My bride, my beloved, my sweet, my angel, my dream come true.  This is our 13th Valentine’s Day together.  Last night  I asked her if she would be my Valentine.  She said yes.  I am so happy.  I am so in love.  I am so in love with her.

Happy Valentine’s Day, my love.

Happy Valentines Day

It’s Valentines Day. I hope you are with the one you love on a night like this. Here I am, sitting in my living room, watching the boob tube with the one I love. Jennifer is sitting right over there. We are together, and that makes me happy. Happier than I could ever explain.

Here’s a picture of our cat because cats are cool.


The Weather Might Help Me

It’s cold out there.  This morning when the kids and I left the house it was four degrees out.  Right now at home in Methuen it is 20 degrees.  Cold, but not brutally end of the world cold.  This weekend there is a chance we could break the record for the lowest temperatures ever recorded on the 13th or 14th of February.  I think the record for tomorrow is -3.

Strangely, this cold snap might work to my advantage.  I’m so ridiculously behind on my RPM recording this year.  I’m ahead of the game on writing, but way way way behind on recording.  In a rare moment of optimism, I see a deep freeze of a weekend as a good reason to stay home and get some work done.  My wife expects to be busy working this weekend.  While I would much prefer the two of us spend the weekend doing things together, it is Valentines Day on Sunday after all, if she is going to be wrapped up in code, I can use the time to get wrapped up in tunes.  Monday is a holiday.  I have the day off, but my beloved doesn’t.  I also took Tuesday and Wednesday off from work with the intention of getting as much singing recorded as I can (even though I have no words or melodies written yet).  That gives me a five day weekend.  If I buckle down, I might be able to finish the whole project by this time next week!  That’s impossible, but maybe I could somehow magically manage to increase my out put from the 13 songs in progress today (with the FAWM goal of 14) to maybe 20?  If RPM defines an album as 10 songs or 35 minutes, could I possibly turn this month into a double album?  Or maybe two entirely separate albums?  Three of the 13 songs are leaning toward being acoustic guitar centered.  Might I end up with an album of electric songs and an album of acoustic songs?

The answer, of course, is no.  I’m getting to 14 and then I’ll probably drop four of them and have a normal 10 song RPM album.  But a boy can dream, right?  I mean… right?

Then the question is, what to do about Valentines Day?  Valentines always gets the shaft in our house.  We still haven’t gotten back to normal from Christmas yet, and then the first week of February has two birthdays in the house, my step son and my beloved brilliant amazing wife, and just when you’ve gotten everything squared away for the birthdays… BAM… you’ve practically missed Valentines.  Personally, I think we should move Valentines to April.  That way we can have enough time to financially recover from Christmas and Birthday week, and have the wonderfully silly celebration of all things romance coincide with the anniversary of our first date.  That would be something I can get behind.  I think the United States, if not the entire world, should get with me and make April Valentines day a reality.  Let’s do this people!  Working together in a massive grass roots effort we can accomplish anything!  First let’s get Bernie Sanders into the White House, then we’ll move Valentines Day to April 5th!

What was I talking about?

Oh yeah… it’s going to be cold this weekend.  Stay warm, New England.

Valentines Day

Am I that guy who used to scoff at Valentines Day and say it was nothing but a drug store holiday designed to sell mass quantities of greeting cards and who actively, enthusiastically even, used to participate in Anti-Valentines day parties that included bowling and mountains of pizza and snickering at the loser couples all around us?

Yes, I am that guy.

Do I still feel that way?

Hells no! I love Valentines Day now! It’s all Jennifer’s fault. You know the story, cynical boy meets perfect girl and suddenly his entire outlook on life changes drastically. That’s me too. Objectively I know that I don’t need a “holiday” to express to Jennifer how much I love her. I know that. That doesn’t mean I’m not going to use the day as an excuse to go over the top and lay it on as thick as I can. Why not? I am head over heels, completely off my rocker, nuts in love with her. Why wouldn’t I take advantage of the situation, even if it is just a drug store holiday?

Happy Valentines Day to the love of my life, Jennifer. Every single aspect of life is infinitely better now that I’m with you. I love you!

Valentine’s Day Roses

I blew the whole flowers-on-Valentine’s thing.

My wife was supposed to work from home today, so I had flowers delivered to the house.  She ended up working from the office.  DAMN!

The upside is that I actually got to see the flowers.  I always have them sent to her office, so I rarely get to see them.  This time was different.

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