Make Your Happy, Happy

Daily writing prompt
What are 5 everyday things that bring you happiness?

Five things… I can do that. In fact, I will give you six because one of the things I want to include is no longer what you’d call an everyday thing. So five things and a bonus… and “everyday things” might be a bit of a gigantic understatement in one case, but I am including it anyway.

  1. Jen. When I say that the word, “everyday” might be an understatement, this is what I am referring to. Jen is not an “everyday thing”. Jen is more like a miracle that I get to experience every day. See the difference? I hope so, because it is massive. Jen makes my world go around. Jen is my universe. Jen is the love of my life. Basically Jen is the source of everything that matters. Happiness? You bet your ass she brings me happiness. She brings me all the happiness.
  2. Bellana and Harry. They don’t live with us anymore. I don’t hear from them everyday. Therefore we have to consider this one sort of a bonus entry on the list. They are my step kids and they bring me happiness everyday, I just don’t see them everyday. See the difference? I can’t write a list of things that make me happy without including them though, so while they are number two on the list, they are sort of a bonus. I love them completely and just knowing they are out there in the wilds of Vermont fills me to the bursting point with happiness.
  3. Music. Now we’re getting to actual everyday things. I listen to at least a little bit of music every day. Even if it’s just a song here and there, or maybe something that comes up on my YouTube suggestions and I give a quick listen to. It doesn’t have to be hours at a time listening to album after album or whatever, though I suspect we’ll get some of that today at work. Playing music, listening to music, writing music, recording music, talking about music, thinking about music… all of it.
  4. A good story. It could be a book, or a TV show, or a movie, or a website, or a news article, or a chat with a friend or family member. I just enjoy a good story.
  5. Going for a drive. I don’t do this one every day, and sometimes (like today in the pouring deluge of rain) it’s less enjoyable than others, but I do love going for a nice drive. The enjoyment level is often tied to the destination, but any drive is a good drive.
  6. Cats! Robin, Lily, the late great Miss Patches, the late great Fluffy Puffy P, the late great Floyd, Buddy, all of my friends cats, all of my family’s cats. Cats make me happy. You might be able to tell from all the cat pictures I post around here. I do enjoy a good cat.

And there you have it, folks. Five plus one things that make me happy. Hopefully you will have a few things make you happy today too. It is Friday, after all. Enjoy yourselves.

Good News is Scary

We got some good news about my father’s condition today. I should be happy. I should be thrilled. I am, partly, but I’m also scared out of my gourd. The good news involves coming home from the hospital for a couple of days before going back to the hospital again for major surgery. We thought he would be staying in until the surgery and the post-op recovery were complete.

He’s good enough to come home early. Yes! He’s still going back next week. No!

My emotional state feels like scrambled eggs look.

One of Those Days, in a Good Way

I am having one of those days where I am reminded how fortunate I am to have won the love of my wife, and how that luck is multiplied many times over that I have also won the love of my two step kids.

I honestly believe that I am the luckiest man alive. I could not possibly be happier than I am being a part of this family. I love them all so very much.

Love

Take a look at this woman. I’ll give you a few minutes to peruse the pics…

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There. Just a few pics of the same woman. Why are these pics important?

They are important, because they are all pictures of the woman I love. My wife, the love of my life, Jen. My life changed in countless ways when Jen became a part of it. She changed me for the better. She made me a better person. She found things in me that I had no idea I was capable of. I owe everything I am to her.

I love her. I try to come up with all sorts of different ways to tell her that, but they all come down to the same thing. I love her. For better for worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, I love her and will spend my life with her, and I can’t put into words how happy that makes me. I can’t put into words how happy she makes me. I love her. I need her. I want to always be with her.

That’s why the woman in these pictures is so special. She’s everything to me.

I love you, Jen.

Happy Day!

Today is like Christmas and my birthday all rolled into one!

The 21st century has finally arrived!

We were just issued wide screen monitors at work!  Oh bliss!  Oh rapture!  Oh happiness!  Wide screen monitors at last!

I’m so thrilled that I want to grab my new monitor and give it a great big hug!

Someone has a Birthday Today

Today is someone’s birthday.  Someone special.  Someone beautiful.  Someone brilliant.  Someone I want to spend every waking moment with.  Someone I love more than anything imaginable.

Someone I married.

Happy birthday, Jen.  Many, many happy returns.

I love you so much!

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