I just got the low down on my mother’s overnight issues. It sounded about normal… or normal for the current situation. She just took her 8:00am pain meds. Here’s hoping for a better day. Less pain, less confusion. Fingers crossed, people.
Tag: health
Better? Maybe?
My sister spent the day at my parents house today. Sounds like my mother stayed busy for most of the day and that helped with her state of mind. My sister also stayed busy which also helped with her state of mind.
We had a nursing service give a consult. They may have some services we can make use of. I’m sure they will be very helpful. Also have appointments with her GP and with the Oncologist and the second round of chemo is still on schedule as of today. We’ll also be talking to some physical therapy folks.
Lots of people who will hopefully make things better for my mother in the short term. I am thankful for all of them and my fingers, toes, and eyes are crossed for good luck.
First Night Home
My mother went home from the hospital yesterday and last night may have been the worst night of the whole ordeal. The infection has her so scrambled that she didn’t believe she was home. She thought we were lying to her. My sister spent the night at my parents house and filled us all in this morning. It was bad.
Please please please let the antibiotics she’s on now clear this up. This is awful.
Home
My mother is home.
That hurricane wind-like sound you just heard was my sigh of relief.
Another Long Day
Today was another long day. My mother is still in the hospital and she’s still not handling it well, but she was much better than yesterday. They are trying to figure out her back pain. They found the UTI that was the source of most of her current problems. The also found bursitis in her hip. She had an MRI on her back tonight. No word on the results yet.
Still no word on when she can leave. We were hoping for today but no dice. At least one more day.
Sleep
Tuesday night’s sleep was kinda awful. My sleep watch app said that I was in “restful sleep” for only half of the time. When I woke up it was like I hadn’t slept at all. It was a bad night.
Last night I went to bed early and then broke one of my quarantine rules.
The rule is, every work day I will be out of bed, showered, and ready to start my work day at the same time I would need to be ready if I had to make the long drive to the office. The goal started out at 7:30. It’s kind of floated up to 7:40 more recently. Today, I was asleep until almost 7:00. Way, way later than normal. Sleep watch said I was asleep for 8:20, and in restful sleep for six hours.
Over eight hours of sleep. It’s amazing. I didn’t think that was possible here in the 21st century. The water tank on my CPAP machine was full when I went to sleep and it was almost bone dry when I woke up. That’s a lot of CPAP run time!
All day yesterday I felt run down and beat up and a little sick. Today I feel a ton better, but my nose is still a little stuffy. It doesn’t feel like allergies. It also doesn’t fit any of the COVID-19 symptoms, so don’t even go there. I think a little bad sleep left me open to a little spring head cold.
Yippee.
Early to bed again tonight? I hope so. It’s helping so far.
Gross CPAP Moment… I Think
When I woke up this morning I had a “did that happen?” moment. It had to do with my CPAP machine.
I’ve been using the machine for about a year now. When I first started I felt like I was remembering dreams more than I ever had before. Maybe once a week or so I would remember a dream after I woke up. After a couple of months that stopped.
This morning when I woke up I remembered something happening during the night, but I couldn’t figure out if it actually happened or if it was a dream.
What was it that I remembered?
I sneezed.
Into my CPAP mask.
Eewwww.
But did it happen? I couldn’t tell. If it did happen it was a first for me. There have been a couple of times when I sneezed but just managed to get the mask off in time. In this case I must have woke up, sneezed, and immediately fell back to sleep. Either that or it was a dream.
I woke up, got out of bed, dragged a comb across my head, and then checked the mask.
Oh yeah… it was not a dream.
I slept with a mask covered in sneeze snot.
GROSS.
Four for Four
Well, that’s all of us. My step son’s school district has shut down for two weeks. They are going to take a couple of days to try and setup some remote learning systems and start having online classes on Wednesday.
So Harry has high school classes at home, Bellana has college classes at home, Jen has work from home, and ol’ Robbie has work from home. All for at least the next two weeks.
It’s going to be tough having all of us trying to work at the same time. We’re going to get in each other’s way and we’re going to get on each other’s nerves, and if everything works out the way we want we will look back on this and see it as a successful waste of time. A little sacrifice today will lead to an easier time for our health care professionals in the coming weeks. That’s the goal at least.
We’re all in this shit show together, and we are up to the challenge.
Diabetes Supplies
We thought we’d stock up on diabetes supplies. Just in case, you know? He has a good stock of everything he needs, but we thought we’d be extra careful and extend his supply.

I guess he’s all set with alcohol wipes then.
Remote Classes
I saw some rumblings on thebookface that the University of Vermont had made a call on post-Spring Break classes. I just checked with Bellana and it is confirmed.
Spring break ends on Monday, but classes on Monday and Tuesday are cancelled outright. Starting on Wednesday they are switching to remote classes.
In other words… hey you crazy spring breaking kids… don’t come back.
I asked her if she left anything in her dorm that she needs going forward and she said she’s all set. She is prepared. She’s also planning to go back as soon as they let her, which is understandable. I guess the question now is will they lock the place down while the students are away or will they be able to get back into their rooms if they need something.
We will see.