Hospitals Suck

We have been married for 109 days.

On Tuesday Jen spoke to her doctor about some symptoms she’d been having off and on over the last few days. Her doctor suggested going to the emergency room to have a few tests run. The tests all came back negative (excellent) but they still wanted to admit her over night and run a couple more tests Wednesday morning.

I left work at 11ish and sped (literally… I drive too fast even when I’m not trying to get to my wife while she’s in the hospital) to her side. I had to leave a little before 3:00 to get some stuff for her (see the previous post) and then I had to leave again at about 6:30 because we thought of one thing we’d missed the first time.

Visiting hours end at 8:00. She didn’t have another patient in her room so her nurse told us I could probably stay a little after that. I didn’t end up leaving until 9:00.

I remember when Linda McCartney died, Sir Paul said that over the entire course of their marriage there had only been one night that he and his wife spent apart. That was the night he spent in a Japanese jail for possession of marijuana. Outside of that they were always together.

Personally I find that to be beautiful. I very much wanted to someday in the distant future be able to say something similar about my marriage.

And after just over three months our streak is broken. It’s nothing to be upset about. The tests are necessary and they will show what we already know; there is nothing wrong with Jen. But…

Tonight is the first night of our marriage that we are separated. Really it’s the first night since I unofficially moved into her apartment in Salem about a year and a half ago.

I hate it. I miss her so much. I am going to call in to work tomorrow so I can be there for her when she is discharged. Visiting hours don’t start until noon. I don’t have to go to bed at a decent hour tonight. I am tired but I know I won’t be able to sleep much if at all without her with me so I have popped on a blu ray (and am going to pop in a second one as soon as I post this) and am just going to sit here missing her and if I fall asleep that’s fine, if I don’t that’s fine too.

I love my wife very much and I miss her terribly tonight.

Flowers

Follow the trail of the flowers.

This morning I felt one of those urges to make a cutesy display of my
love for Jen. I went to 1800flowers.com and ordered a dozen roses for
my sweetie.

I scheduled the delivery for today with the destination as her
office. Ten minutes later she told me she had to leave the office to
go home and meet our landlord for something.

I immediately called to have the destination address changed. I waded
through 100 voice options and read off my huge confirmation number
only to be told that my order wouldn't be in their system for an hour.

As soon as I hung up I got the your-order-is-in-our-system email
(grrrrr). So I brought it up and tried to edit it. Nope, can't do
that. So I went to the FAQ and found the email address to send order
help requests to and gave the old address and the new address.

I figured I'd have to wait for them to get back to me. In the
meantime Jen called to tell me she was not going home but instead she
was going to the hospital.

She had had a few pains over the weekend and today called her doctor
about it. He told her to go to the ER and have some tests.

I warped out of work and forgot about the flowers. Unexpectedly she
was admitted for the night. She is fine, they just want to run
another test in the morning.

After she was moved to her own room I went home to get her some
supplies and the flowers were on the porch.

After loading up on books and iPod parapenalia I put the huge
bouquette of flowers into the car and brought them to her.

Those are some well travelled roses!

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Addendum: What is this? This is me testing the PicPosterous iPhone app. I posted a picture to my Posterous account and it forwarded here, just as it was supposed to. I then posted a second picture to the same album on the app. I wanted to see if it would post here too. It did not. I checked my Posterous page and it is there, but on the same post as the Mac picture.

So, if I wish to post stuff here via PicPosterous on my phone, they have to go into individual albums… if I just email the pictures to Posterous normally they will all show up.

There is still the issue of formatting the size of the image, but I am not going to use Posterous enough to worry about it today.

Thanks for letting me conduct this silly test.

Have a nice day.

York’s Wild Animal Kingdom

Sunday morning we were sitting at home. Jen and I were in the office messing with the new iTunes. The kids were in the living room watching Full House DVDs. Jen paused for a moment and said we had to go out today and do something interesting or else the kids were going to spend the entire day in front of the tube melting their brains.

She first suggested going back to Portsmouth and checking out some stores she’s found near her work. That was fine with me, but the kids would probably hate it. I suggested we find something kid friendly too to sweeten the deal for them. She found something and suggested it to them but the reception was pretty cold.

So onto the Internet my wife goes. She does some research on Portsmouth, NH but eventually decides to widen the search. She stumbles across something interesting in York, ME. York’s Wild Animal Kingdom. It is two parks, a zoo and an amusement park. Both together are a tad more expensive than we wanted to go, but if we stuck to the zoo alone it would be affordable.

The decision had been made, but we didn’t tell the kids. It would be a surprise for them. We packed into the car and headed North. Visions of Old Orchard Beach were swimming in one first grader’s mind as we crossed the bridge on route 95 that separates Maine from New Hampshire. No dice kid, we’re going some where else.

We got to the parking lot and spilled the surprise. They seamed a little apprehensive at first. Maybe because the sun was very bright and it was really hot on the pavement. We bought our tickets and then, before entering the zoo area, went to get some lunch.
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The line at the snack bar wasn’t long but it was unbelievably slow.

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We spent way more time than we wanted to waiting in the line.
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There was also the issue of the previous day’s heavy rains. Half of the picnic area was under water.
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We persevered though and rose above the challenge. That was a good thing because as soon as we got into the zoo we saw this:
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A baby monkey (or similar primate) hanging upside down by one foot. Awesome! I seriously wanted to take him home with us.
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Next to the world’s coolest monkey was an area where you could feed goats. Feeding the animals is always fun, but these goats were very up front about wanting some food. There wasn’t a shy bone in this guy’s body.
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Continuing on the cuteness end of the animal kingdom were the lemurs. We tried to get them to sing, like in the movie Madagascar, but they weren’t having it.
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There was a pond where you could ride paddle boats. We decided to skip the boats and took the scenic view. There were paths around the water with a few bridges where you could look down on the boats and the birds. When I say birds I mean ducks and geese. Dozens of them. Each one cooler than the one before. Ducks are awesome.
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We saw a few of these guys at the San Diego zoo while on our honeymoon. This is the world’s largest rodent.
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Which lead us to more goats. This time, baby goats.
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Mom excused herself for a minute to do some secret cloak and dagger style work. The kids and I saw these two guys and had to check them out.
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Mom rejoined us just in time for this. Cover your eyes kids. Hey tortoises, get a room!
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Jen’s secret agent work had to do with checking on the rules for the goat area. Not only could we feed the goats, but we could go into their pen and hang around with them. Again, the goats weren’t shy at all. One of them kept standing up and putting his front paws on us in an attempt to make sure we wouldn’t pass him over with the food we were handing out. He also decided that Jen’s camera strap would make a tasty snack and took a chunk out of it.

The journey continued and we got to see some huge lizards…
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…some tiny little frogs…
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…an ostrich…
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…and a lynx.
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Next we came upon another walk-around-with-the-animals-while-you-feed-them area. This time with deer. Little Bambi looking guys. They were great, but pretty shy. They would come up to you and eat out of your hand, but they wouldn’t hang around long enough for you to pet them. We all tried though.
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At the hight of grossness we saw a wildebeest taking a leak… while another wildebeest took a drink. He actually tried to drink straight from the tap. Gross indeed! I failed to get a good picture, but I’m not sure you really wanted me to get one.
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We learned that Prairie Dogs are awesome and that they live at The Alamo, complete with miniature cannons.
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Here we see a Prairie Dog re-enacting the battle. Remember the Alamo!
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There was a large closed in butterfly area. Inside we saw these guys.
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There were also a few butterflies.
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Our original plan was to head home in time for dinner but we were having way too much fun so we decided to go out. It was decided that lobster was the menu item of choice. We wandered back down into New Hampshire and headed toward Hampton Beach where we stopped at Brown’s Lobster Pound (is that the name, or is it just Brown’s?). The males at hamburgers while the females ate lobsters. It always looks like a major struggle trying to break the suckers open.
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One interesting item of note about Brown’s is the view across the marsh. This is what you see.
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Need a closer look? Allow me to zoom in…
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Yes, that is in fact Seabrook Nuclear Power Plant. I assure you though, there were no meltdowns and no lobsters were irradiated in the making of this post.

After dinner we made the long drive home. We did manage to stop at one more place in Salem, NH… Hawksie’s ice cream. It wouldn’t have been the perfect day out without some ice cream topping it off.

So it was, in fact, a perfect day out.

Think we can get a pet monkey?

iTunes 9 Home Sharing Works

Jen and I just set up Home Sharing on iTunes.

Now instead of just streaming music from each other’s iTunes libraries we can actually use iTunes to swap files back and forth.

Eventually we’ll just set up a music server somewhere and put everything in one place. For now though, this is kinda neat-o for nerds.

Lowell Devils Tickets

Individual tickets for Lowell Devils games go on sale on September 14th. Let’s hope the traffic jams on the roads leading to the Tsongas Arena box office don’t cripple the city. Also, let’s hope the city’s telephone infrastructure can handle the massive demand.