Flake Days

Daily writing prompt
Do lazy days make you feel rested or unproductive?

In my house we have a tradition that we used to call “flake days.” The kids were little and had all sorts of activities on the weekends and we would be running ragged trying to keep up with everything. Every now and then the schedule would work out and we would have a day with nothing scheduled so we’d take advantage of it by just spending the day flaking in font of the TV watching movies or playing games or just reading a book. Those were lazy and unproductive days but they were simply wonderful.

Now that the kids have grown up and moved out I still find the occasional flake day to be beneficial. They are definitely unproductive and I do often feel guilty about that, but Jen and I both work hard during the week and sometimes a quiet, unproductive Saturday or Sunday is just what we need.

I look at energy and motivation and drive as a sort of gas tank. Sometimes you need to take a weekend day off to let the tank fill itself up so that you are better equipped to handle what comes up during the week. Does that make sense? Is that me justifying being lazy? Probably. Do I care? Nope, I do not.

5 thoughts on “Flake Days

  1. Dude, I’m 69. Flake days aren’t something to feel guilty about–they’re gifts, gems given to you to focus on whatever makes you happy. If you don’t take them, the kids will leave and you’ll be trying to push, push, push, but there will be nothing to justify pushing…and you’ll go crazy.

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